The Story of Aisha: The Girl Who Always Needed Approval
Aisha was a bright, talented girl, but she had one problem—she always needed approval from others.
She would change her opinions to fit in. She posted selfies online, waiting for likes to feel pretty. She worked hard, but if no one praised her, she felt worthless.
One day, she overheard her classmates laughing. “Aisha tries too hard. She wants everyone to like her.” 💔
That night, she stared at herself in the mirror and asked,
"Why do I need others to tell me I’m good enough? Why can't I just believe in myself?"
That was the day Aisha decided to change.
If you also feel like you need others' approval, it's time to break free and build self-respect. Here’s how!
1️⃣ Stop Being a People-Pleaser 🚫
Do you say yes even when you want to say no? 😟
🔹 Example: Aryan hated going to parties, but he always said yes because he feared people would judge him.
✔ Solution: Understand that saying ‘no’ doesn’t make you a bad person. Your happiness matters!
💡 Try this: Next time you feel forced to do something, pause and ask, “Do I really want this?” If not, say no confidently.
2️⃣ Accept That Not Everyone Will Like You 😌
Imagine a delicious chocolate cake. 🍫🎂
Some people love it. Some hate it. But does the cake change itself? NO!
💬 Moral: You’re not here to impress everyone. Be yourself, and the right people will appreciate you.
✔ Solution: Stop overthinking what others think and focus on what makes YOU happy.
3️⃣ Validate Yourself Instead of Seeking It from Others 👏
Riya spent hours dressing up, waiting for someone to compliment her. One day, she realized: “Why should I wait for others to tell me I look good? I can just feel it myself!”
🔹 Example: Instead of waiting for likes on Instagram, look in the mirror and say, "I look great today!"
✔ Solution: Start giving yourself the compliments and validation you seek from others.
4️⃣ Set Boundaries and Protect Your Energy 🚧
If someone disrespects you, do you stay silent or stand up for yourself?
🔹 Example: Aisha’s friend always made jokes about her weight. Instead of laughing awkwardly, she finally said, “I don’t appreciate these comments.” 💬
✔ Solution: Speak up when needed. If someone crosses your limits, let them know you won’t tolerate it.
5️⃣ Do Things That Make YOU Proud 🎯
Instead of chasing validation, work on becoming the best version of yourself.
✔ Solution: Set personal goals. Learn a new skill. Achieve something for yourself, not for others.
💡 Challenge: Do something today that makes YOU proud—without telling anyone!
Final Thoughts: Be Your Own Biggest Fan! 🌟
Aisha stopped caring about others' opinions. She started doing things for herself.
She didn’t need approval anymore—because she approved of herself.
🔥 And that’s the secret to self-respect.
💬 What’s one thing you love about yourself? Comment below!
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